The Groom's Speech

The groom replies on behalf of his new wife and himself, thanking the guests for their good wishes and gifts; their parents for being their parents and all those who have helped to make the wedding ceremony and the reception a success - concluding with the bridesmaids, to whom he proposes a toast to.

He begins by responding to the bride's father's toast, and might mention the following:

• His appreciation to his parents for his upbringing
• The thanks he owes them for his start in life - and for any particular sacrifices they have made on his behalf
• His gratitude to his new in-laws for hosting the wedding and allowing him to marry their daughter
• A story about meeting his bride, of their engagement, difficulties or fortunes
• His intention to devote himself to the happiness of his bride
• Thanks to the guests for their presents and good wishes
• Appreciation of all the people who have helped with the wedding arrangements
• Particular thanks to his best man for his assistance
• Compliments to the beauty of the bridesmaids and his thanks for their help
• Finally he proposes a toast to the bridesmaids

It is traditional for the bridegroom to present each of the bridesmaids with a small present during his speech (or the bride may do this before the wedding). These presents usually comprise some small piece of jewellery, such as a silver chain with a pendant or a locket or a pair of earrings.